- Happier-ness isn’t something you feel, but
something you do. It’s a skill every one of us has and can improve by regularly
practicing the scientifically-proven habits of gratitude, kindness, and
mindfulness.
- It’s OK to be not OK. True emotional
well-being is not the absence of negative emotions. It’s the practice of
strengthening your emotional immune system so that you learn how to be OK even
when not everything is OK.
- “I’ll be happy when…” is the surest way to
never feel happy enough. Genuine emotional wellness can only be nurtured from
within.
- Gratitude, kindness, and mindfulness are the
three anchors of happier-ness practice. Make them a non-negotiable part of your day,
put them on your to-do list, and do them even if you don’t feel like it.
- Be Here Now (however now is). When you become
awake to what is and how you feel right
now, without judgment or expectations, you gain clarity and
strength.
- You can practice gratitude in every moment,
even when life sucks. When you look for something, however small, to appreciate,
your brain releases serotonin and dopamine, both of which make you feel better.
Gratitude is magic medicine that never runs out.
- Be kind without expecting anything in return. Do it because it feels
better to be kind than not. You experience 100% of emotions you give to others,
so when you act kindly, you feel kindness towards yourself.
- Seek meaning more often than happiness. The simplest acts,
if meaningful to you, will bring you closer to feeling full, alive, and
happier.
- Don’t try to be fearless. Accept your fear and
move into love, commitment, passion, and dedication for what you are doing.
- You can’t give what you don’t have. Taking care of your
emotional well-being is the greatest gift you can give to people you love.
[Quoting "My 10 Commandments of Happier-ness by Nataly from Happier.com]